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The Secret to Sleep in Midlife

Lisa Boehm


How to get better. sleep in midlife


As midlife women, we often find ourselves juggling countless responsibilities, from family to career, all while navigating the physical and emotional changes that come with aging. One common issue that many of us face during this time is disrupted sleep. Whether it’s due to the onset of menopause or increased stress, sleep problems can have a profound impact on our overall well-being. Fortunately, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) offers effective solutions that can help us regain control over our sleep patterns, even in midlife.


Why Sleep in Midlife is So Important


Sleep is essential for our physical and mental health, but as we age, getting a good night’s rest can become increasingly difficult. Hormonal changes, particularly those associated with menopause, can lead to night sweats, insomnia, and frequent waking. These disruptions not only leave us feeling exhausted but can also exacerbate feelings of anxiety and depression, creating a vicious cycle. Prioritizing sleep in midlife is crucial for maintaining energy levels, improving mood, and enhancing cognitive function, all of which help us manage the challenges of daily life more effectively.


How Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Can Improve Sleep


Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a highly effective treatment for sleep disorders, including those that arise during midlife. Unlike medication, which only treats the symptoms of insomnia, CBT addresses the underlying causes by helping us change the thoughts and behaviours that interfere with sleep. CBT for insomnia, often referred to as CBT-I, is specifically designed to help individuals develop healthy sleep habits and reduce the anxiety that often accompanies sleeplessness.


One of the core components of CBT-I is sleep restriction therapy, which limits the time spent in bed to the actual amount of sleep you’re getting, thereby increasing the drive to sleep. Another key element is cognitive restructuring, which involves identifying and challenging negative thoughts about sleep that may be keeping you awake. By focusing on these strategies, midlife women can not only improve their sleep but also experience greater overall well-being.


Three Tips to Help You Sleep Better in Midlife


While CBT-I is a powerful tool, there are also practical steps you can take to improve your sleep quality right now. Here are three tips to help you get started:


  1. Establish a Consistent Sleep Schedule Going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, even on weekends, helps regulate your body’s internal clock. This consistency makes it easier to fall asleep and wake up naturally, without relying on an alarm.

  2. Create a Relaxing Bedtime Routine Develop a calming pre-sleep routine that signals to your body that it’s time to wind down. This could include activities like reading a book, taking a warm bath, or practicing mindfulness meditation. Avoid screens, as the blue light emitted by phones and tablets can interfere with your ability to fall asleep.

  3. Limit Caffeine and Alcohol Intake Both caffeine and alcohol can disrupt sleep, especially when consumed later in the day. Try to avoid caffeinated beverages after lunch, and limit alcohol intake in the evening, as it can lead to fragmented sleep and night sweats.


There are Sleep Experts!


In a recent podcast episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Savannah Hipes, a sleep expert who specializes in helping midlife women overcome sleep challenges. Savannah shared invaluable insights into how CBT can be a game-changer for those struggling with insomnia, especially during the midlife years. Her expertise offers hope for anyone looking to reclaim their nights and wake up feeling refreshed.


By understanding the importance of sleep and taking proactive steps to improve our sleep habits, we can navigate midlife with greater ease and resilience. Remember, better sleep is within reach, and with tools like CBT, you can overcome the challenges and enjoy a more restful night. Check out our full conversation HERE.


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